Anxiety and Life in the ‘New Normal’

As lockdown is very gradually lifted, life is very slowly returning ‘normal’. It will be some time however before our normal lives are really as they were a few months ago. We are told to expect a ‘new normal’ as many of the restrictions and measures put in place to protect us continue to apply. It is natural to feel some sense of apprehension and anxiety about this ‘new normal’ and what the future may hold, but some will feel this more acutely than others.

The Impact of Anxiety Post-Lockdown

If you are someone who has already struggled with anxiety, your feelings may have been compounded by the onset of the pandemic and the restrictions of lockdown. You may have found that even if you have not suffered from anxiety before, you are now feeling wary of venturing outdoors and resuming some of the activities we all used to take for granted. Either way, those feelings of worry and anxiety can be hard to shift.

Why Some of Us Are Struggling More Than Others

After months of being told to be wary of others, keep our distance, don’t touch, wear a mask – things which we are still being urged to do – it is no wonder that some of us will be feeling anxious about venturing further than our own front doors. Some of us will prefer instead to continue to take refuge in our homes where things are under our own control – perhaps feeling unable to cope with the anxiety they feel when going out. In these circumstances, feelings of isolation and depression can develop easily and quickly, and may even develop further into a more persistent mental health condition such as panic attacks and agoraphobia (fear of going out).

The restrictions and precautions of the ‘new normal’ may exacerbate fears and feelings of anxiety – and some find they are simply not able to go out.

How to Manage Post-Lockdown Anxiety

If you are feeling more anxious than you normally do about leaving your home, or if you suffer from anxiety generally, here’s what you can do to keep those feelings in check.

  • Talk to and take a friend
    Sharing your concerns with a trusted friend or family member can really help to put anxieties into perspective. If you are anxious about venturing out, ask a member of your household to go with you, or arrange to meet a friend (observing social distancing rules of course). Having the support and company of someone you trust can be very re-assuring.
  • Take it slow and steady
    If you are feeling overwhelmed by the thought of once again facing the wider world, do it in manageable steps – perhaps starting first with a visit to a shop close to home, or getting together in a friend’s garden (following the rules of course) – and then as your confidence builds, venturing a little further afield.
  • Relaxation techniques
    Some find relaxation techniques such as meditation, mindfulness and breathing techniques useful in calming down and gaining perspective. Breathing techniques can bring the heart rate down, making you feel calmer and more in control. Mindfulness – or focusing on the here and now – can be very helpful in calming feelings of anxiety. Take time to observe and focus on the things around you – whether it’s the birdsong or the passing traffic. By focussing on one thing at a time, your mind becomes occupied with that activity and not on the things which may be making you anxious.
  • Think positively
    The restrictions in place at present are there to protect us all. On the whole, our human nature is to look after each other – something which has become very evident over the last few months. The people you come across outside the safety of your home will also be keen to stay safe.  If you adhere to the rules, then the likelihood that you will be protected is high. And remember, this is a temporary situation – the restrictions are a means to an eventual end of the pandemic.
  • Professional help
    If you are finding things really difficult, it may be time to seek help from a mental health professional, such as a therapist, psychologist or psychiatrist who will be able to talk through your fears with you and find methods of dealing with your anxiety.

At Private Psychiatry we have helped many people overcome their fears and to develop ways of managing their anxiety so that it is no longer an obstacle to joining in with the rest of the world and enjoying life.

Anxiety FAQ

Why is anxiety increasing after lockdown?

Anxiety is a natural response to uncertainty and perceived danger. After months of isolation, constant health warnings, and lifestyle changes, it’s common to experience heightened anxiety when returning to normal activities. Many people feel anxious about public places, social interactions, and safety, even as restrictions ease.

How can I manage my anxiety about going outside?

To reduce anxiety about going outside, take gradual steps: start with short walks or small social interactions, and build up your confidence. Use anxiety-reducing techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, and grounding exercises. Having a trusted friend with you can also help ease the transition.

Is it normal to feel anxious even if I didn’t struggle with anxiety before?

Yes, it is normal. Many people are experiencing anxiety for the first time due to the pandemic. Changes in routine, health fears, and uncertainty can trigger anxiety in anyone, regardless of their mental health history.

What are some effective ways to cope with anxiety long term?

Effective ways to cope with anxiety include regular physical activity, a structured routine, relaxation techniques, limiting exposure to distressing news, and staying socially connected. If anxiety persists, seeking help from a therapist or mental health professional is often the best long-term solution.

When should I seek professional help for anxiety?

If anxiety interferes with your daily life, relationships, or ability to function, such as avoiding going outside, experiencing panic attacks, or persistent fear, it’s important to seek professional support. Therapists and psychiatrists can help you develop strategies to manage anxiety and improve your quality of life.