What does stress feel like?

Understanding Stress

We all experience stress – it’s a normal response to life’s challenges, good and bad. But when stress begins to take over your life, it’s a problem.

A Personal Story of Living with Stress

Here’s how one person with stress described it:

“The worst thing for me was sleep – I would wake up at night with burning issues that wouldn’t go and kept me awake. I felt angry with it. And maybe because I was getting so tired I found it really hard to concentrate. There were so many things to think about and deal with. I was overwhelmed. My breathing sometimes felt staggered, like I couldn’t take a full breath in. And my blood pressure was up – I could feel it.

I saw my GP in the end, and she signed me off work. I learned some breathing exercises, and a yoga routine that really helped. And I cut out caffeine and alcohol even though I didn’t drink much anyway.

At the same time she did some tests, and we found that I had developed a heart condition. It may or may not have been caused by the stress – we don’t know. I had an operation on my heart, learned ways of dealing with stress, and I’m well now.”

The symptoms of stress

The symptoms of stress are familiar to all of us but they can start to take over. Stress can affect you mentally and physically and it can affect your behaviour too.

Emotional Symptoms

If you’re stressed you might feel:

  • Irritable, aggressive, impatient, wound up
  • Over-burdened
  • Anxious, nervous or afraid
  • Unable to switch off
  • Unable to enjoy yourself or find things funny
  • Depressed
  • Uninterested
  • Full of dread
  • Lonely or abandoned

Behavioural Symptoms

Stress can affect your behaviour too. You might:

  • Struggle to make decisions
  • Avoid difficult situations
  • Be snappy
  • Bite your nails or pick your skin
  • Struggle to concentrate
  • Eat too much or not enough
  • Smoke or drink more than usual
  • Feel restless
  • Want to cry

Physical Symptoms

If you’re stressed you make have physical symptoms such as:

  • Shallow breathing or hyperventilating
  • Panic attacks
  • Blurred sight or sore eyes
  • Sleep problems
  • Sexual problems
  • Feeling tired all the time
  • Grinding your teeth or clenching your jaw
  • Headaches
  • Chest pains
  • High blood pressure
  • Indigestion or heartburn
  • Constipation or diarrhoea
  • Feeling sick, dizzy or faint

Ask for help

At Private Psychiatry we often see people referred by their GP and for whom stress has become a problem. Picking up the phone to us can seem really hard, but we hope that the moment you speak to us you’ll feel reassured that we can help.

More information about stress

The symptom list above is based on Mind’s checklist. Mind also has excellent information about living with stress.

Stress FAQ

When should I seek professional help for stress?

If stress is interfering with your daily life, relationships, work, or sleep and especially if you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or physically unwell, it’s important to speak to your GP or a mental health professional. Early support can prevent symptoms from getting worse.

Can stress cause physical health problems?

Yes. Chronic stress can contribute to physical health issues such as high blood pressure, digestive problems, sleep disturbances, weakened immunity, and even heart conditions. Managing stress is important not just for mental health but for your overall well-being.

What are some effective ways to manage stress?

Simple techniques like deep breathing, physical activity, reducing caffeine and alcohol, mindfulness, yoga, and talking to someone you trust can be very helpful. For ongoing stress, structured therapy or professional support may be needed.

Is it normal to feel stressed even when nothing major is happening?

Yes. Stress can build up from smaller, everyday pressures such as work, family responsibilities, or financial concerns. Sometimes, underlying anxiety or unresolved issues may also contribute to feeling stressed without a clear trigger.

How can Private Psychiatry help with stress?

At Private Psychiatry, we offer assessments, evidence-based treatments, and personalised care plans for stress and related conditions. Whether you need therapy, lifestyle guidance, or medication, our team can help you regain control and improve your quality of life.