How to Deal with Stress

Understanding Stress

Stress is one of the most common conditions we treat at Private Psychiatry. Everyone suffers from stress at some point in their lives. Most people find ways to manage their stress effectively, perhaps though exercise, relaxation classes, socialising or better time planning.  When stress is not managed though, the cumulative effect of a build up of stress hormones can lead to symptoms such as problems sleeping, finding it difficult to concentrate or irritability. Learning to recognise and manage high stress levels early can often prevent the need for intensive intervention.

Self-Help Strategies

Using a diary to record physical and emotional feelings and the circumstances surrounding them can help people to see patterns in their stress levels.  Recording what you were doing, who you were with and what you were thinking, as well as how you felt for each episode of stress and making a note of anything you were able to do to overcome those feelings can be very helpful.  After keeping the diary for a period of several weeks you can analyse it to isolate the most frequent causes of your stress and the most effective behaviours to deal with it.

Digital Tools for Stress Management

There are many online tools to help with stress management which can be a good starting point if your stress is mild.  If self-help methods prove inadequate, the next step is usually a visit to your GP armed with your diary.  They will be able to recommend additional treatment for you, probably in the form of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) which is a type of therapy that helps you manage your problems by changing the way you respond to situations in both thought and behaviour. Mindfulness can also be an effective way of calming and reducing stress – by concentrating on the here and now and enjoying the moment rather than worrying about any problems. This is a form of transcendental meditation, where a mantra is used.

Further Help and Specialist Support

When stress has built up over a longer period of time or is accompanied by other conditions such as depression, anxiety or panic attacks, it may be necessary to seek specialist help for an accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment plan.  This may include some form of medication such as antidepressants or anti-anxiety drugs. Recommendations for lifestyle changes and talking therapies may also be given.

Taking the First Step

Learning to deal with stress on a day to day basis can seem like an impossible task. By taking the first step in dealing with it by sharing your feelings with someone, undertaking an activity such as yoga, taking time to relax, or by starting a stress diary, you can be well on your way to managing and dealing with your stress before it becomes a major issue.

If stress does become unmanageable on your own and begins to have too much of an effect on your daily life and on those around you, we at Private Psychiatry can help – contact us to make an appointment with one of our consultant psychiatrists.

How to deal with stress FAQ

What are the common signs that stress is becoming a problem?

Persistent stress can lead to sleep problems, difficulty concentrating, irritability, fatigue, headaches, or feeling overwhelmed. If these symptoms persist or affect daily functioning, it may be time to seek help.

Can I manage stress on my own, or do I need professional help?

Many people successfully manage mild stress through self-help methods like journaling, exercise, and mindfulness. However, if stress becomes chronic or is accompanied by anxiety, depression, or panic attacks, professional support is recommended.

What is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and how does it help with stress?

CBT is a structured, evidence-based therapy that helps you identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours. It’s effective for managing stress, anxiety, and other emotional difficulties by teaching practical coping strategies.

Is medication always necessary for managing stress?

Not always. Medication is typically considered when stress is severe or linked with conditions like anxiety or depression. For many people, a combination of lifestyle changes and talking therapies is sufficient.

How quickly can I expect to feel better with treatment?

Improvement timelines vary. Some people notice changes within a few weeks of starting therapy or making lifestyle adjustments. Others may need a longer-term approach, especially if stress is tied to other mental health conditions.